I have been reminded time and time again; that an obstruction in our view can hurt us and more importantly it may hurt others. This hit home when a distracted driver drove straight into our two-day-old car this December, missing my door by an inch and totaling it. I am reminded of this type of blind spot every time I hear someone complain about: their bad manager, their incapable employee, or that they did not get the promotion they deserved. While distracted driving causes auto accidents, those drivers do not wake up in the morning saying “I am going to go out and cause an accident today.” Nor do most preoccupied managers intend on hurting their employees.
You see, we all have our blind spots. A blind spot can be detrimental but because it is blocked from site, we do not see what others can see that is sitting right in front of us. We may never fully realize the pain we are causing others by lack of clarity of our own shortcomings. Studies keep revealing employee engagement lingers at about 33%. Bringing the blind spot into a clear view takes effort. By not trying to see what our own blind spot is we go around (without a clue) repeating behaviors that are inflicting pain and even damage to co-workers every day and even on ourselves.
I challenge you to have the courage in the coming year to identify your blind spot, the thing that may be holding you back from: moving into that next position, hitting your next big goal, or making it a better workplace for those around you. How can you do this? Below are five Quick Tips for Identifying your Blind Spots.
5 tips for identifying your blind spots
- Ask people who will tell you what you need to hear, not just what you want to hear.
- Get a 360 Feedback process that gives you concrete strategies for self – improvement.
- Learn to accept feedback – maybe you are hearing it, but are you really listening?
- Identify patterns and trends in working relationships – you might find that the common theme has a finger pointing back to you.
- Hire a coach or find an accountability partner, someone who can help you see it and then be aware when it may be impacting you or your work relationships.
Clarity allows for clear vision and alignment in your life. Seeing the whole picture will open new doors and increase employee engagement in your work-space.
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